Saturday, December 11, 2010
So What Scares You?
First, credit where credit is due. Illustration from The Arabian Nights by Boris Zvorykin.
Now - quick - don't think about it. Just say it. What's the answer to that question? What scares you?
Okay, you've scratched the surface. Spiders? Dark closets? Zombies? Failure?
Ah - failure. You're heading for the motherlode.
Here's what I think: fear is what holds us back from just about everything. Fear, which serves a useful purpose as it makes us think long and hard before risky behavior, can also stop us dead in our tracks. And I believe our real, root fear is always a lot deeper than we think.
Trace whatever you're afraid of and it is probably about survival. At least I've found that to be true for me.
So we play it safe, tread the clearly marked paths to make sure we survive.
But I think it's those overgrown sideroads where there's real living to be done. It won't always be happy/carefree/joyous - but it will sometimes. And I think it is always interesting.
I like interesting. If you subscribe to the common belief, we've only got one life. And don't forget the 11th commandment: Thou shalt not bore God. I think it's equally bad to bore yourself.
If I were that princess, I think I'd hop on that dragon's back and see what happens.